Reason?????????
There r times in life when one feels depressed for no reason. When one sits back & tries to find out the cause, actually there might b no immediate or single cause, but a series of events wud have contributed to it. Nothing more do I have to write abt this, but I dint come across such an exact situation or description in any book. So friends, any suggestion for any book on this topic or ur own thoughts r welcome.
posted by Fathima Sagar | 6:42:00 pm
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People always feel depressed when they expect a lot from something but do not get them. Sometime ppl put in a lot of effort doing a particular work and if they dont get the expected result that results in frsutration and depression. I had very bad experiences when many of my university applications got rejected last may. I dont know how many times my friends came to me and asked me "Kavala padathada... you will definitely get to a good univeristy".. I cant imagine the number of nights i spent sleepless in my hostel room....but i had learnt a very good lesson at the end of the day... "YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE PAID FOR YOUR HARDWORK" SO never get depressed for any situation. This is my personal view...may this might be true with somebody else tooo... Mail me your opinion...take care
I think I can perfectly empathize with you. I have discussed with my close friends, a number of times on "feeling depressed without reason". But to try and find a cause for that is futile. I feel depression or sadness is just another feeling. How many times have we felt happy without any reason....imagine the number of times you were whistling some tune to yourself walking down the road, happily...we do not try to research why we felt happy without a reason. So there is no justification for researching depression, it is just a feeling that keeps us distinct from a log of wood...makes us the emotional creatures that we are....;) Cherish those moments as well...just be alone talking to yourself...enjoy your company yourself.
Yes, Talk to Urself, U can be ur Best Friend!!!
we are all saying the same things.. words are different.. Here is another view of the issue thru my eys..
I dont try to give u an answer to the original questino which was ,"whats the reason?".. but i can tell u that if sadness and worries are dark.. they simply make the bright sides of life seem even brighter...they can teach u to take nothing for granted..and enjoy the better moments even more...
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